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Frequently asked questions, answered clearly.

Clear answers about counselling, study support, relationship support, privacy, appointments, and taking the first step.

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Getting started

Choosing a service, making first contact, and knowing what to expect next.

How do I know which service is right for me?

You do not need to decide alone. Our individual counselling focuses on personal and emotional wellbeing; study support helps people who are struggling to keep up with their studies; and family and relationship support focuses on communication, conflict, boundaries, and change between people.

If the concern crosses more than one area, send a short note through our contact page. We can help identify a sensible place to begin.

What happens after I contact Be Positive?

We will respond to the contact details you provide, clarify the kind of support you are looking for, and answer practical questions about the next available step. You will have an opportunity to consider the information before deciding whether to proceed.

The contact form is only a starting point. A brief outline is enough, and you should not include urgent or highly sensitive details in the message.

Do I need to know exactly what I want to talk about?

No. Some people arrive with one clear concern; others only know that they feel stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or uncertain. The first conversations can help put words around what is happening and identify what would be useful to focus on.

You are welcome to bring questions, say when something does not fit, and take time with subjects that feel difficult to explain.

What if Be Positive is not the right service for my needs?

A good fit matters. If the support you need appears to sit outside our service, availability, or scope, we will say so rather than encourage you to begin an unsuitable arrangement.

Where possible, we can suggest the type of professional or service you may wish to look for, but we cannot guarantee another provider's availability or suitability.

Individual counselling

How counselling works, what it can support, and how the focus is decided.

What can I bring to individual counselling?

People may seek counselling for stress, anxiety, low confidence, grief, life changes, relationship patterns, boundaries, difficult decisions, or a general sense that something is not working well. You do not need a diagnosis to begin a conversation.

During initial contact, we will consider whether your concern is within our scope and whether another form of support may be more appropriate.

What happens in a counselling session?

A session offers structured time to talk about what is happening, notice patterns, consider different perspectives, and develop strategies or next steps. The balance between reflection and practical work depends on your needs and goals.

Counselling is collaborative. You remain involved in deciding what to focus on, and you can ask questions or give feedback about the process.

Will a counsellor tell me what to do?

Counselling is generally intended to support your understanding and choices rather than make important life decisions for you. We may offer observations, questions, information, or practical strategies, but these are explored with you rather than imposed as instructions.

If you are struggling with your studies, sessions focus on the pressures you are facing, your emotional wellbeing, and the support you need.

How many sessions will I need?

There is no single number that suits everyone. The time involved depends on the concern, your goals, the pace that feels manageable, and whether you are seeking focused support or a longer period of reflection and change.

We can discuss the likely approach at the beginning and review together whether sessions continue to feel useful. You can also ask about frequency, breaks, and ending support.

Is counselling confidential?

Personal information and session discussions are treated with care and privacy. Confidentiality can have legal, ethical, and safety-related limits, including circumstances involving serious risk of harm or where disclosure is required by law.

The applicable boundaries should be explained before counselling begins. Our privacy policy also explains how website enquiries and personal information are handled.

Study support

Support for people struggling to keep up with studies, academic pressure, and lost confidence.

Who is study support for?

Study support is for people who are struggling to keep up with their studies. You may be falling behind, feeling overwhelmed by academic expectations, losing confidence, or dealing with personal difficulties that make studying harder.

If the enquiry is for a young person, tell us their age and circumstances so we can confirm whether the service and consent arrangements are appropriate before booking.

Does study support include course advice or teaching me how to study?

No. This service does not include choosing courses or careers, tutoring, completing coursework, or teaching study techniques.

Our focus is emotional support for the difficulties you are experiencing while studying, including pressure, self-doubt, feeling behind, and personal concerns affecting your ability to keep up.

What can I talk about in a study support session?

You can talk about falling behind, exam and deadline pressure, disappointment with results, low motivation, lost confidence, or worries about letting others down. Family, relationship, and personal difficulties affecting your studies are welcome in the conversation too.

We take time to understand what is happening, how it is affecting you, and what support would feel useful. This can include talking through the feelings around asking a teacher, lecturer, parent, or student support service for help.

Do I need to be failing before I ask for support?

No. You can reach out when keeping up begins to feel difficult, even if your results have not changed or other people think you are managing well.

You do not need to have everything worked out before contacting us. A brief explanation of what has been hard is enough to begin a conversation about support.

Family and relationships

What relationship support can involve and how different perspectives are handled.

What concerns can relationship support help us explore?

Couples and families may seek support for repeated arguments, emotional distance, communication difficulties, trust concerns, changing roles, parenting pressure, separation, blended families, caregiving, or boundaries with relatives.

We will consider whether the concern is appropriate for shared sessions and discuss a different or specialist form of support when needed.

Will the counsellor take sides?

The aim is to understand each person's experience and the interaction between people, not to appoint a winner. Everyone is encouraged to speak from their own perspective, listen with curiosity, and take responsibility for the changes within their control.

Balanced support does not mean ignoring harmful behaviour or treating every action as equivalent. Suitability and safety need to be considered throughout.

Can I ask for relationship support if the other person will not attend?

Yes, individual counselling can still help you understand relationship patterns, clarify your needs, practise communication, and consider the boundaries or decisions available to you.

One person cannot make every part of a relationship change, but they can develop greater clarity about their own responses and choices.

Is relationship counselling only about staying together?

No. Some people seek support to repair and reconnect, while others need help understanding the relationship, making a decision, or communicating more respectfully during change or separation.

Counselling does not make the decision for you. It can create space to consider what each person needs and what a responsible next step may involve.

Practicalities, privacy, and safety

Fees, appointments, personal information, and where to turn for urgent support.

How much do sessions cost, and what is the cancellation policy?

Current fees, payment arrangements, session details, and cancellation terms will be provided before you confirm a booking. Ask about any practical concern during initial contact so you can make an informed decision.

Do not assume that a private counselling or guidance service is covered by health insurance, an employer programme, a government health scheme, or another funding arrangement. Please confirm eligibility directly before relying on reimbursement.

Are all appointments online?

Yes. All counselling and guidance appointments are held online. Contact us to arrange a session, and we will confirm how to join before your appointment.

If accessibility, privacy, technology, or scheduling affects how you can attend online, include that in your enquiry so it can be considered early.

What should I include in the website contact form?

Provide your contact details, the service you are considering, and a brief outline of what you would like support with. Please do not include detailed health histories, urgent safety information, or other highly sensitive material in the form.

We use the information to respond to your request. Read our privacy policy for more detail about website data and service providers.

Is Be Positive an emergency or crisis service?

No. The website contact form, email inbox, and practice phone are not monitored as emergency or crisis services.

If you or someone else is in immediate danger in India, call 112 or go to the nearest emergency department. For 24-hour mental health support, call Tele-MANAS on 14416.

Can I ask questions before I book?

Yes. Use the contact page to ask about service fit, appointment arrangements, fees, privacy, or anything else you need to understand before deciding.

We want the next step to be clear and considered. Making an enquiry does not oblige you to book.

Still deciding?

Ask what you need to know before you begin.

Share the kind of support you are considering and anything that remains unclear. We will help you understand a suitable next step.

A simple conversation is enough to begin.